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About Abuse: 

Abuse of a child, especially one that was hand-picked causes scars that run deeper than the soul itself. No amount of tears shed, can heal those wounds.

About adoption: 

Parents hoping to adopt, should be subjected to a rigorous background check, psychological tesing and interviews, as well as spontaneous check-ups, on the adoptees by social workers. Adoptees should be interviewed periodically and underscore testing to see how they are functioning compared to their non-adopted peers.

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Nursel
March 9 1969
Istanbul
April 73
Pa
Dr M Bodmer

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Lisa
1988
Washington State
1988
Washington - 20 acre horse farm
Adoptive Mom

Physical until about age 12-13

Emotional from as far back as I can remember and still continues

Neglect

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I didn't even know it was abuse for a long time. I didn't know that it was wrong. Me and my adoptive mom are not close, have never been close and after many unsuccessful attempts on my part to sever all ties I am still in contact with her. Not frequently though. She had a deadbolt on her bedroom door and hid all the food in her room. Me and my younger brothers were homeschooled. She would lock us outside if she didn't want to be around us anymore. She would hit us with 8ft horse whips or whatever she could get her hands on. She is bi-polar and doesn't take her meds so I have to take that into account...maybe things would be differant if she would take her medication.

About adoption: 

I have reunited with my birthfamily over the summer. I have a full older brother who lives with my birthmom and I have two younger half sisters. One is my birthdads and the other is my birthmoms. My birthdad is an alcoholic and has been since he was 17. My birthmom is a meth user and so is my brother.

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btstormb2006
October 1966
South Korea
1969
Florida
Adoptive father and mother

My adoptive father sexually abused me from the age of 4 until 14 years old.  He continued to emotionally abuse me until shortly before his death in 1993. My adoptive mother not only failed to protect me after I told her about the abuse, but she also harshly criticized me as well.  Her inactions and neglect negatively affected me as much as her actions.  I was 26 when she took responsibility for her actions, but I still dont feel that she has fully recognized her role as the abuser or accomplice.

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Silence protects abusers, prevents healing for the victims and thus, perpetuates abuse. The years lost to self-doubt, guilt, and shame because of abuse, will never be recovered, however, as healing adults we can expose the truth to help ourselves and others who may not feel strong enough yet to speak about the injustices done to them.  Victims can stop the cycle of abuse and empower themselves to take back their lives for today and tomorrow. 

About adoption: 

Adoption is a multi-billion dollar industry primarily benefitting adoption agencies under the guise of protecting and saving unwanted children.  Not all adoptees were unwanted children and legal adoptions occur without the biological parents voluntarily relinquishing their children. Specifically in South Korea, a paradigm shift must occur in order for unwed mothers to have the option of keeping their babies instead of giving them up to adoption. There is much work to do in Korea to change the existing laws and practices.

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My name is Nikki
I am told I was born on September 27, 1969
in Our Lady of Victory Infant Home in Lackawanna, NY.
I am told I was placed with my adoptive family on April 23, 1970 and that my adoption was finalized on February 5, 1971.
I was raised outside Buffalo, New York, first in a duplex that housed me and my afamily upstairs, and my afather's mom & dad, two sisters and three of their daughters downstairs. After my grandfather died, my aparents would convert to born again christianity. They bought a house of their own and cut us off from my afather's side of the family because they refused to forsake their Catholicism.
My amother was the person from whom I received the most crap, but my afather would also dole out the punishment. There were six kids, my older brother T and myself were adopted (but not related). Then there were two girls, St and E, and two boys, Sc and J, who were born following my adoption. My older abrother terrorized all of the kids, bullying his way to whatever he wanted. One time T went to punch my youngest brother J so hard, he put his hand clear through the wall when J ducked.

Having spent the first seven months of my life in the Infant Home, I would need to be placed with a family where the adults had the ability to patiently nurture me in order to bond.  You could not have picked a person more the opposite than my amother.  She could be that person in doses, but usually saved those doses for her bio kids.  For me she saved her hate and venom, telling me repeatedly from the time I was 4 or 5 that I was stupid, retarded, that I had my brains in my ass, and that she knew I didn't love her.  (She repeated the last one following my wedding.)  She hated that I was a tomboy and told me to grow up and act like a girl should. 

She wouldn't wait until I actually did something wrong to beat on me.  If she had a bad day, she would seek me out.  Punching, kicking, grabbing me by the neck, ripping out my hair, etc.  I didn't even have to say anything to get my face slapped out of the blue.  She would just say that I should wipe the look off my face.  There were times when my afather would stop speaking to me and looking at me for weeks and then explode and beat me in a fit of rage.  It seemed to happen periodically, at least once a year.  The last time was when I was 16. He tearfully apologized the next morning, and never beat me again.  I am still not sure what those incidents were about.

My amother was convinced I was going to become pregnant before graduating high school like my bmom.  She never said this outright, but controlled my every move (I had a 9 pm curfew until I was a senior in high school.  Then it was 10 pm.), who my friends could be, and my "sex" talk at 16 was if I got pregnant, I was not allowed to have an abortion, they would not raise the baby and that I would not be allowed to raise it in their house.  All the isolation, control, verbal and physical crap drove me to enlist in the Navy when I was 17 just to get away from her.  I knew if I stayed I would commit suicide just to escape her insults, her rages, and her control.  I had already tried several times by then.

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The mistreatment of children, in whatever form, regardless of the period of time, robs us of being able to root ourselves in a safe, caring world and sets us up to spend an untold amount of energy throughout our adult lives wrestling with the fact that we will never have a caring, nurturing childhood.  We then have to find ways to fill the hole we're left with.  Some can do this more successfully than others.

The foster care, adoption, and child placement industries have priorities that are financially motivated first and foremost, which means the needs and wants of children are secondary.  Knowingly giving a child to a household that has no skills and no ability to raise a child into a confident, caring young adult should be a crime.  If the state has to pay to care for and provide for children because there aren't adults who are adequate parents, and to keep siblings together, then so be it.  It's not just a moral responsibility to guarantee children safety and health, it's a social responsibility.  In a country that claims to be a democracy, it ought to be a mandate.

About adoption: 

I cannot remember a time that I did not know I was adopted.  But I do remember that I was not allowed to ask what that meant and where my bmom was without being beaten and punished.  Just as when I was a child/adolescent, I'm now expected and legally required to live my life without being able to anchor who I am to history, to a place and to people.  Not only me, but my son is expected to do the same, to make do with half his history, and so will his children.  To have to live out my life in the 21st century according to the social moors and resulting laws from the middle of the last century is nonsensical. 

There is a whole generation of unfinished stories with no substantial, logical reason for remaining so.  At one point in the 1970's, women couldn't secure an abortion, could not obtain birth control pills without their husband being present, were still, for the most part, working in the home, and a whole generation of women had built up no social security benefits or credit record.  All of those things have changed, and closed adoption is one of  the last bastions standing from that era.  It is time for lawmakers and citizens alike to get over their insecurities and their need for control so that a generation of adopted adults who have had decisions made without their consent can start choosing for themselves.

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Annonymous
December 2 1962
Torrington, CT
3/01/1963
an upper middle class family you would never expect inflicted cruelty on children
Adopted Mother

I was told every day that I was a mental deficient just like my real mother.  That I was nothing and would never be anything.  I was told that I was the most ugly child they had ever seen.  I was beaten, strangled, whipped, publicly and privately humiliated.  I was locked in a room and not allowed to socialize.  I ran away at 16 and went to court to declare myself an emancipated youth.

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I have no idea why these people would adopt a baby.  Why oh why would they not have left me for someone who really would have loved me.   Records need to be OPENED, why do I have to suffer for other peoples choices?

About adoption: 

Adoption is EVIL.

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Michelle
04/01/1972
Independence, Louisiana
1985-- after 10 years in foster care with adoptive family
Bogalusa, Louisiana
Delores M., adoptive mother; Brian R., foster brother and fellow foster child

Slapping, Punching, Violent Shaking, Hair-pulling, Ear-pulling, Kicking, Throwing, Hitting with various objects (stick, belt, wooden spoon, hot curling iron, fly-swatter) from age 3 to age 19

Threatened with knife, threaten to be beaten until "the blood comes out," among other verbal threats from age 3 to age 17

Humiliation, degradation, physical and verbal abuse in public; referred to as having "emotional problems," told that I was just like my birth mother while speaking ill of her.  age 3 to age 34

Sexual abuse by older foster child #1, attempted rape by older foster child #2 (when I was around age 10).  Blamed for it when I talked about it at 19.

Controlled social interactions, friends had to be kids from our church or a similar church, not allowed to join activities such as Girls Scounts.  Forced to play piano in church; not allowed to play classical music, only religious music.  Television was strictly censored to programs adopters liked, as was music.

 

 

 

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About Abuse: 

The stories of abuse while in foster care are increasing.  What people don't usually talk about is the abuse after the child is adopted.  Adoption is viewed as a means of rescuing a child from unfortunate circumstances, and often this is true.  There are many children whose lives were made better by their new parents' love and affection.  Sadly, there are many of us whose stories haven't been heard because of the myth that adoption always leads to a better life.

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Vanessa
May 18, 1969
India
April 1978
Nelson, British Columbia, Canada
Adopted mother and father

From April 1978 until October 1984 I was sexually and physcially abused by my adopted parents. They both had been found mentally unfit to adopt me but through private adoption were able to get me. I was kept in an attic with no light which was freezing cold in the winter and stiffling hot in the summer. I was starved alot of times as well. I was not allowed in the living room or kitchen except to clean. My life was such a nightmare that sleep became my only friend.

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The abuse I faced is hard to describe and put into words. it kills your soul and makes you think that you are no good and that you are meant to be abused. It makes you feel unloved and uncared for,It never goes away it is always there you just learn to live with it and the past because it will always be part of you.

About adoption: 

I for one do not support intercountry adoption. I beleive adoption is alread hard but when you bring a child from another country and place a minority child in a predominantly white area it damages that child.

My adopted parents were found unfit to adopt me and yet through private adoption were able to get me which is not right just beacause they  had money and I faced years of torture and abuse with no one to help me. I was finally taken away by social services. My adoption should never have been allowed because I had also been stolen from my family and then hidden and then adopted out. it is just wrong!!!!

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Infant Atwell
12 Dec 1965
El Paso, Texas
27 july 1966
Texas and Arizona
Abuser: Adoptive father and adoptive mother, Tom and Terry

Constant verbal abuse by both aparents. Physical abuse by afather until 14. Afather would put us in dangerous situations (example: line us up and shoot at us with live ammo, told to hold still). Afather set my play house on fire (with me in it) when I was five (he needed the insurance money). A passerby saw the fire and got me out. Afather was not happy. I cut all ties with aparents when I was 19.

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kimette
I was born in 1966
I was born in Seoul, Korea
I was adopted at the end of 1975
Quebec, Canada
My abusers were my father, Leo Goudreau, and my mother Lorraine.

From 1979 to 1983, I was sexually abused by my father. From 1979 to 1989, I was subjected to verbal, emotional and physical abuse by my alcoholic mother. From 1983 to 1989, I was verbally abused by my father.

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My father had 5 biological children from his first marriage. I was the only one who had been abused. Asian girls are often seen as a exotic by western men.

My mother had no other child than me. She preferred to drink and beat me instead of protecting me from her housband.

Adoptive mothers of Asian daughters, be aware! Exporting countries of babies,  be aware! You are accoutable.

About adoption: 

The adoption agency and the orphanage didn't get the consent from my family before putting me up for adoption. They promised me to find my house when I gave them my address but but they never searched it. They erased my past and made a fake birth date to make me adoptable. I had a family but the adoption industry put me in a family and a country where I never fit in.  Now, I have no place where I fit in.

International adoption is not ethical.

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